Hey Jim, when I was younger I hated going to weddings. It seemed that all the aunts and grandmotherly types would come up to me, poke me in the ribs and tell me, "your next." They stopped doing that shit after I started doing the same to them at funerals. Ha! anyway doesn't that seem to be another strange law and difficult to prove where and when I met my partner, in order to prove we are legally common-law? My old man was in the tavern last night and talking to another guy who works with the state. He too is unmarried he came up with some advice. He say's I can claim his girlfriend as my lover, and he will claim my man as his lover! whoa, I guess there are ways to get good insurance huh? Rustic