I totally agree with you, Mickey and I am sorry this has been so upsetting. I do understand and I'd feel the same way, as I said, if I found our my mom's ashes weren't really her.

Sharon, yes, of course it is done with respect and ceremony. I was aware of what the Marshes have done. It is despicable and I've had a good time thinking up all manner of slow torment for them, something Torquemada might employ, were it acceptable to get them back that way for all of the horror they've visited on others through their actions. It would probably be wasted on them, though. They obviously have no feelings, nor compunctions or empathy, so one wonders if they are capable of feeling pain.:-(

kat