SharonA & saulgoldie, you did nothing wrong or inappropriate and have nothing to apologize for in general. I still think that a song would not be inappropriate, although I guess that parodies/comic songs will be a while in coming. But as I said in the other thread - this does need a song, it just should be a tragic ballad. In 20 years people can sing it like "I turned 21 in prison doing life without parole" but meantime the tune should be a dirge.