RUSTIC: First of all, as a relative newcomer myself, welcome. I like your sense of humor enough to let you know what I, as a man, have discovered about men. Now some men will jump in and say that I'm wrong but deep down inside, these men just haven't yet grasped the reality of their own denial. So here it is in a nutshell (no pun intended...): A man will do or say something stupid or embarrassing every day of his life. There, the cat is out of the bag. It took me years to figure this out but it holds true for all men, denial or not... Well, maybe not those in coma's but if they were to snap out of the coma tomorrow, you can bet they'd get caught up on their arrearages right quick. Now some men will wake up in the morning and say to themselves, "Today is the day I'm not going to do anything dumb," and then they go thru the day with their tummy all twisted up and still say or do some stupid thing. Now, since ol' bobert figured this out many years ago, I just got out and get it over with, like being the first in line for the flue shot. Yep, no twisted tummy, no anxiety, just DO IT. Oh.... you say you'd allready figured that out about men, heah? Okay, well at least I've got a jump on tomorrow....