Sorry to be writing this in bits: I'll also need your real name and some sort of contact info for you because if I do find her I'll give her your details and ask her to get in touch with you, rather than blindly passing hers on to someone I don't know. This is NOTHING personal, promise - there's nothing amiss in your request - but I always make it a policy to leave the decision to the person being sought as to whether they wish to be found.

Hope you understand :-)