Murray, I speak as I was taught, but either way, it doesn't sound particularly over lady-like.

And I can't find the grits I saw in the shops! Searched everywhere, almost, even in the American food store in the new mall down the road. (And nothing in there seems especially attractive, being over-produced. Nothing basic.) Could I, over influenced by catspaw, have hallucinated them? Or was I in the budgerigar section, and nowhere near the cereals?