About 20 years ago a woman I was quite fond of told me it wouldn't work because I wasn't evil enough. There was nothing to "fix". We have remained close friends all these years, but she married a "challenge" and he screwed her over big time. Whenever I see some broken hearted woman in Dear Abby complaining that all men are bastards, this one did this and that one did that, I'm tempted to reply, "Wake up, stop seeking out the same kind of man"! I firmly believe that women like that dont really want a good man; good men are boring, dont give them a second look. Now, ladies, I speak from a man's point of view, and, I'm sure you can say the same about men. I repeat, it's not so much a matter of good and bad, but, more a matter of "appropriate" or "inappropriate" You may sowsle* it around all you want; water and oil simply do not mix.

* to mix or stir