Hey, Anon thru sadness, that's were I was 2 months ago, for the last time (a try at reconciliation just got hung up on the same old points. Some big differences just can't be smoothed over again, and again, and again).

It hurts for a while, but that's just part of the transition to a new life. I'm just as happy now that I don't have to fight her all the time, and I'm really better off now and don't have to structure my life around hers. [She's now a deacon of her church and very self-righteous, and I'm an agnostic.] Enough, because some Mudcaters know me personally and I don't want to give too much away.