begs a question about a mouthful
I found talking easy after divorce, after the endless silences I just had a lot of talking to do. Mind you there have been times since when discussion was being thwarted and at that point "nothing" is preferrable to negativity. But that person was a misanthrope at heart (did I say heart?)
Just a thought but what happens when the sex is waning? Does that motivate to get the comms linked?
of course one sided dialogue gets you no where.