Anna,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and Amy. That said I have dealt with doctors for years, both for myself and for my dad. The most important thing is that Amy feel comfortable with her Doc and that includes feeling comfortable that he is doing all he can for her. After that having someone who goes with you consostantly and is willing to ask the hard questions is important. take a note book and outline your questions before meeting with the doc and make sure he addresses all of your concerns each visit. If he can't make sure he tells you why and that the reason is viable ( waiting for test results,ect). Make sure he realizes that he is a partner in your daughter's care but that your daughter is in controll and if she is not able, some *she* designates. if the Doc can't get it, then get a new one! Make sure you are clear on her wishes and that they are honoured at all times that is the biggest gift you can give her. I will keep ypu all in my prayers andi