My prayers too -- for you and Amy. I too have a grown daughter but she's much farther away, living in Israel, which is scary enough. But I hope you find a healer. When you're facing something that feels this threatening, you need an ally, you need support, you need someone who knows the job and knows that relating to Amy is the first step in helping her. Don't settle for less than that.

I'm here rarely these days but I just wanted to add my virtual support, along with prayers -- sorry it isn't more.