Lonesome EJ- I am coming out of my corner for a minute to thank-you, sincerely, for your posting. I am well aware that it was a painfully generous thing for you to share with us here, regardless of the "Precious Memory" it must be for you to hold. You have captured, in those words, the essence of "Dying is no reason to stop living"!! Your words are also helping me sort out,in my own mind, thoughts that are still in there, crashing into each other, and not ready to come out yet. THANKS!