LOL! I love this place, even the trolling is amusing...

Well, for me, anyones place is wherever they make it (regardless of gender), so long as it does not involve destroying others lives in the process of getting there. Happiness is found internally, not externally. When you have that, then you can find the right person to fill that place at your side. Before that, and you are looking for a bandaid for the hurt...not a partner to share life with.