Congratulations Amy and Robert! Such a beautiful love story.I'm reminded of my 70-something-year-old uncle who was a widower and asked his grown children how they felt about him remarrying. His intended was going through by-pass surgery, and his daughter told him, "You'll be with her anyway." (meaning, he was already committed, marriage just came later.)
You'll have years of happiness because you already know what's important.
Cheers!