To 53: Wow, that must've been rough, Bob. At least things worked out so that you have Glenda now.

I have to assume that, when you say "now I don't have a best friend", you mean you don't have a male good-buddy to do guy-stuff with. Still, if you don't want to spend the rest of your current marriage sleeping on the couch, you probably ought to mention what a good friend Glenda has been to you! :^)
Sharon