Allex! NICE to see you!!

The point I was makng about string quartets plaing with dots, etc. was that they couldn't possibly play well if they had their heads buried in the books. To say no one can keep rhythm, harmonise, etc. if they use a book is incorrect if one takes a look at a symphony, etc. They all have to watch the conductor very closely. They know the music well enough to play it in their sleep, usually, but they use the dots and still manage to come together with great expression evoking strong emotions in their audiences.

Thanks for mentioning singing around the piano. That's what my family did almost every Saturday night, with and without sheet music and we had plenty of eye contact and feelings expressed.

Maybe most newer members are coming to it completely new without any experience as such? Ah well, it's been interesting.

kat