Thanks everyone it is really much appreciated.....

Got a little bit more information on it this morning...

I guess they will not operate because he has small cell cancer...which I guess means it is inoperable because when you cut into it, the cancer just goes wild...

A tumor is also pressing against his voice box....making it difficult to speak...

The doctor says that he will be on chemotherapy...for a very long time...which I gather means til the end...

And now I guess because of the chemo he will be undergoing....it will destroy the medicine that he needs to keep his heart regulated...he takes coumadin...he will still have to take it...but he will have to watch his heart even more,....

once again...thank you my dear friends.