Dear heart, it was you who disagreed with me, when you took exception to my saying suicide bombers are acting out of hatred. Remember?

I have no problem with your having all the opinions you wish, CarolC. (And I believe I have read all of the threads from the start where you make your case (repeatedly!) for your views.) I agree with many of the conclusions you have drawn. I would only suggest that you come across as just a bit strident and condescending, and that you might keep in mind that a great many of any person's views are drawn from those who have convinced us. It doesn't necessarily mean that the views that have been promulgated are correct, they may be only convincing.

Keep in mind that we're all on the same side here. If you do that, your tone will be friendlier. (Dare I say, in my opinion?) My point, I guess, is that like most people, I like debate- some of the best thoughts come through it- but I don't like the feel of a bludgeon. So again, I say, lighten up. Please.