capri,thanks for all your input so far.
your last one reminded me of a day centre i worked in liverpool.
a VIP was going to be visiting, so there was a great bustling amount of activity going on. staff 'n service users were got busy making all sorts of art 'n craft 'exhibits'
when the visitor came, all the artwork which had been done by staff was presented s though it had been done by su's
makes me mad, the hypocrisy