Penelope - I don't think it is accurate to say that 'catter's don't like guests. After all, we all started out as guests, and guests regularly make great contributions to the content and quality of the myriad discussions we get into. It may be more accurate to say that we seem not to be overly fond of those occasional trolls and related troglydites whose only interest in coming here is to vent whatever nastiness seems to possess them at that moment. Putting up with such sick people is just part of the price we pay to maintain an open forum, and the trick that we all eventually learn is to just ignore them. I would encourage you to become a member here. The family is filled with good and decent people from many places, and kindred souold are always welcomed with open arms.