Ok this isn't a musical type question but...
Recently a friend of mine has been in the hospital for cancer (this is his third time)anyway they say he is too badly eaten up with it & offer no hope. His family has decided not to tell him how bad it is & he thinks he has a solid chance. I will respect their wishes but... I can't help but wonder, if it was me I would want to know. What do you think?

I recently played at his sister's funeral & suspect I'll be doing the same at his. Losing a friend is always hard but I will always wonder if he would have preferred to know
Thanks for bearing with me here.
Charcloth