I know what you mean, Dai. My friend from the college here emailed me this week with a request of did I know anyine who wouldbe willing to provide a free room to a college student for the summer. He is a Yugoslavian Serb, who couldn't get out of the country until this Feb.; is almost 7 ft. tall, a basteketball player and studying to be a dr. Ltd. English, but getting better and very poor. Kind of puts a different light on things when we are touched in a even semi-personal way. She said he is a very serious and good student.