From what my guy friends tell me.... they find slender, shapely women attractive BUT when they find someone they really like, it don't matter all that much.

I mean, I really dig The Rock, to look at... but Mister, well, he's 6'2" and about 170. Weighs the same he did in high school at the age of 46. He don't have Rock-like muscles but he is lean and wiry.

I tend to prefer the tall, skinny types, but before I was married, I dated guys who weren't necessarily either one. Dave was large, bordering on fat, and I was absolutely crazy about him. I had a muscular boyfriend too, and he was ever so fine to look at - but I was crazy about him as well, and it really wouldn't have mattered. I would have followed him to the ends of the earth - but sadly, when he did go to the ends of the earth, I wasn't in a position to follow. C'est la vie. But I would have!!! ;-)In all, though, I think I got the better deal.

Looks may attract you to someome, but it ain't the thing that keeps you.