M Ted, I didn't know the stuff GUEST posted. To me, it's helpful information about what some parts of my world are like. It all helps me understand some things, I think.

This whole thread has been remarkably civil, despite the difficult subject. I'm still marveling about it. I hope I can for a long time. I really appreciate the effort people are making to not let their pushed buttons take over. Please, just keep talking, and breathing a little slower when you need to, huh?

~Susan