o.m.g.--it is exhausiting just reading the messages- but it could be the best thing that ever happened to me-especially because my parents both died recently and i just arrived with a 20 foot truck full of their stuff.= (and a 15 foot one last year, too!--yikes!!) and a couple of pick up trucks from an auntie' who recently passed away--as well. a definate lesson in "you can't take it with you"--you just send it with someone who has a truck--namely moi--now i HAVE to de-clutter in a big way!! sheesh--attachment....