Yes it is - but that attitude has been engendered by some people posting as GUEST with malevolent intent and damaging cnsequences - paranopia about seeing trolling where it is not is one of the most harmful. No doubt GUEST Date: 23-Jun-02 - 07:06 PM isn't one of that sort - but just click on "From: GUEST" at the top of the post, and a list of GUEST posts will appear, and I think you'll see what I mean.

But please let's not have this thread turn into a ritual coutry dance around the unadorned-GUEST issue. There is a real question from someone who wants advice, and I think that should take priority.