When I got talked into joining a sensitive new-age mens' group a few years ago, my first worry was "what's the protocol", and am I going to fit in. I'm not sure what to do when I walk into a church to see a folk concert, let alone enter a room with 7 other guys who have all memorized Robert Blye. During the bear hugs, I kept thinking "am I supposed to keep my eyes open?"

Have to admit though, anything's better than those handshakes where you're not quick enough and the other guy gives the end of your fingers a firm shake.

Rest assured though Peter, next time we meet, I'll have thought of something.