Seems to me all this stuff about (shhhhh!!) secret handshakes is being too publicised! The whole purpose of a secret handshake is to meet without anyone knowing it, isn't it? I would think that in order to keep it a secret no one should be told or it will defeat the purpose! Or at least tell about it only on a need to know basis, ie: two folks meet, shake hands and one tells the other, "I just shook your hand using the secret handshake!" Works for me......