wierd--this thread has not shown up on my computer til today-i was surprised there wasno mention of dave's passing so i started a new thread...hope that does not dilute the posts to have two obit going-- i keep thinking how majic it must have been for tracy to have hime come back and speak to her after actually passing away--and then to see a bird hovering at the window--oooh-- it is just such a wonderful sign of spirit!!