Hee hee! I am reminded of a conversation with 2 men, who'd gone outside to smoke cigarettes; we'd been talking about how men don't share their feelings and bond the way we always hear women do. So when they came back in, I asked if they'd "bonded" - simultaneous answers came, Yes from one, No from the other. So the one who said No turned to the one who said Yes and quipped - must have been Male Pattern Bonding!