Mick, thank you. It was SO simple, and yet I couldn't come up with it no matter how hard I tried. I'm referring to your phrase "sorry you don't get it". From now on, anytime I see something that I perceive as totally dumb or rude or inappropriate, I don't have to risk censure by responding heatedly, I can just say "sorry you don't get it", and at least I'LL know what I really meant.