Perhaps a place of honor in Arlington where others can pay their respects and they can share hallowed grounds with other heroes. Instead of being a chapter in a history book they will be remembered by those wishing to pay remember their sacrifice.If I were in their place (and I wish I could be considered as brave, dedicated, and patriotic as they were) I would not wish to be interred at the bottom of the sea in a coral encrusted tomb, forgotten except for those who study history. I would feel comfortable knowing my sacrifice was recognized in a place fitting my efforts.
Ron