I haven't read all of the threads in question but I have read this one and get the general idea of what's going on in the others.

I disagree with those who've said the guest who started this thread has been outspoken about this merely to generate negative energy. I could be wrong, but I don't read that as this person's intent at all. I think that person has made an honest attempt to explain why certain threads are offensive and would like to see that changed. There's nothing wrong with that. It seems to me that it's coming from a place of caring about the forum, rather than just trying to stir up trouble.

Here's what I'm wondering. It's obvious that some of the posts in some of these threads are offensive to some, for whatever reasons, not the least of which is regard for the kids who may be lurking. Why is it so difficult to tone it down a little bit then? When we're in the company of others, don't we try to regard others' feelings as a matter of courtesy? What's so tough about that? To be courteous is not the same as saying you agree with the offended parties. It's just being courteous.

kat brought up the attractiveness of this site to some of the older folks. I think that's a very important point. If they were to stop in for a visit and express discomfort with some of the things they found here, I would like to think that they and their opinions would be regarded with respect. That said, I think that most of the folks can look at these things and realize that the posts in the threads are a reflection of the individual who posted them, rather than the forum in general.

Whether or not a particular thread or post is offensive to certain readers is one thing, but even more significant, IMO, is the reflection of the caliber of the poster, by the words he or she chooses to use.