Damn us not for the sake of a fool. Next time you see him just slip him an ipecac laced chocolate chip cookie and smile.

Meanwhile, consider that there are plenty of others out there just looking for a proud beauty like you--and wondering where you are. [No, don't wear a sign.]

You will also find that the more relaxed and happy you are, the more you will be approached. this will be especially true once you get a good relationship going and don't feel any need to look.