Guest-Taliesen, when my father was killed by terrorists and the US gov't tried to drape his coffin in the flag and sing hymns over it, we wouldn't allow that either. When the gov't tried to have my Mom declared insane or incompetent so that they could do it anyway, we resisted, and we prevailed.

Don't tell me how to feel about people killed by terrorists, or not to object to using a hymn and pretending you're not, till YOU have had someone in YOUR family killed by these terrorists, ok?