Amos,
To each his/her own, I respect your decision to not participate with a group because of what it would mean to you. Some of us will participate for varying reasons and that's ok too, as I said, to eash his/her own.

McGrath,
I totally agree with you, a lot of people will be remembering that day and to some it will be almost as difficult as the day itself....and they will do it in a way that is meaningful to them.

Burke,
My wife just got her Masters at Widener where Christie Todd Whitman wa the main speaker and she used essentially the same speach. I thought she was very sensitive to the issues and was very NON-political with what could have been a very political subject....I was very impressed.

Frank