I have a fairly firm handshake - surprised many a bloke who thought I'd be girly and weak.... I tend not to offer it unless prompted by the other person, because we have a very large Muslim population in my area and workplace.

I like firm handshakes, but again, the bonechrusher can be offputting, but sometimes, when I get one, I hold on a bit longer and give an extra squeeze to let them know they don't intimidate me.....

The worst is the limp sweaty one, like holding a wet fish that's been dead for a week. I always want to rub my hand down the side of my trousers after that one..... and on being forced into handshakes with certain people, have done so in full view.... it sort of negates the handshake and tells them that hostilities have not been suspended....

LTS