I used to have my hand regularly crushed by a boor in my office of London Underground. After the first few times, I quietly mentioned that I didn't find it necessary to try to break my hand if he wanted to shake it ( he used to get his thumb on the side of your index finger knuckle and his index finger on your pinky knuckle and grind...) . His response was literally "Piffle!" and he walked off. I got my revenge at the next meeting, when he grabbed my hand I screamed. Lawks, was he embarrased. I mean, how good does it look when you're over 6 foot, built like a brick out house and you go around hurting small women for no apparent reason in a work situation? Strangely, he wouldn't come near me at all after that and I used to wind him up by edging closer to him, just to see what he would do.I like the african nod thing, although you may have some confusion around penitent catholics ( meia culpa.....).
TTFN M'Lady P.