Bobbert,

I am sorry to hear the cat is missing. I know how imprtant pets can be. Give your wife time and space , but do all the things you have been doing. If oyu have small children seeing mommy upset like this can cause them distress spend some extra time with them .... how about have the kids "help" make mom a special dinner , with candle light , hand made "feel better cards, ect. Then put out the cat's favourite food for a few days and see if it doesn't come home. and please post when the cat returns! andi