Speaking as a fiend in the west (DO watch those typo's! *G*), all I can say is, THAT'S WHAT THREADS ARE FOR. You leave your message and give it time to sprout, and then come back and see what's popped up. In the meantime: sleep, have something to eat, play some music, live your life. Other than that if you want to exchange PMs with someone in rapid-fire/realtime mode, unless they are in your timezone you have to make an appointment with them.

~Susan