Hes:

The reasons you were viewing at the time all looked very intelligent and valid. If they now seem impossible and stupid, it may be because you have slipped away from the original viewpoint in favor of someone else's.

This makes havoc out of making decisions and getting where you want to go because you can always dfrop into the perspective of someone highly critical of you and stop the whole plan.

Only one of the various points of view is your own genuine view of things.

The others are what makes for all the hellacious confusion.

Just my tuppence worth, FWIW.

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