When I last heard from Glenda, they were both busy getting their lives on track, and as some of you know that can be a pretty tall order. I think that it is safe to say that if Bob felt that Mudcat was a good place for him to be right now, he'd be here. I know that as someone who liked and cared about them, I found the flames directed his way very painful, and I am not sure that Bob ever realized how they came about or why. Anyway, Glenda knows where I am if she wants to talk, and I think it's best just to hold a good thought (or prayer) for them, and wish them the best-- whether we *see* them here or not.~Susan