The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #51743   Message #789820
Posted By: SharonA
23-Sep-02 - 04:48 PM
Thread Name: BS: Frying pan into the fire................
Subject: RE: BS: Frying pan into the fire................
Don't know if Mudlark is on to something with the relationship advice but, if you are "between" significant others, I'd like to chime in by saying that smoking can be a real "turn-off" in a relationship with a non-smoker. Sure, you could restrict yourself to relationships with fellow smokers, but then you'd have to expect your significant other to be grumpy until (s)he has a cigarette to satisfy the craving that's causing the grumps, and you seem to want to avoid grumpy people! Of course, two questions must be asked: (a) are you grumpy when you want a cigarette and haven't had one yet; and (b) if so, would non-grumpy people want to be in a relationship with you?