GREAT POINT Margarita! We're probably better off discussing these things here. I for one am totally and completely intimidated by people who shout and yell to make their point. And the ones who bang their fists on tables? It just completely disrupts my thought process - I can't form ideas or responses, so I just say absolutely nothing - and then I'd leave. I'm envious of folks who can go toe to toe in an emotional debate while still making logical points - but I need to filter things both ways to make any sense at all.