Susan...

I guess there will always be some things that people cannot hear, no matter what. When people seem to be inconsiderate of others feelings/needs/limitations I feel the need to confront their (IN MY OPINION) insensitivity to redress the balance, especially where one of my dear friends is concerned.

Rather than continuing this "discussion" with you which could easily lead to a more painful situation between us, I will refrain from replying in the way I would prefer to if you were more open to what I have to say. You have your way and I have mine. Sadly, I gravely doubt the twain shall ever meet. Though I remain open to being proved wrong on that point.    :`)

PAX

~ Jande