Steve, both of you have my very best thoughts. I know how hard this must be for you. Knowing some history of both you and your kids, they have formed their own lives from what was obviously s good job of parenting. Unlike Jed and Doug, my definition of "success" may differ just a bit. For many of us, and I suspect yourself included, the definition of success is the same as it was during VietNam.....Coming home alive. You will both be in my thoughts til she returns safely.

Spaw