My husband doesn't dislike folk music, but he can't sing or play and instrument and his interest is very limited. But he knows how much I love the music and he doesn't guilt trip me about doing it without him. He has activities he loves that I don't participate in, but there are other things we can enjoy together. We don't have to be exactly alike. My first husband, though, resented anything I did without him, and that was the only time in my life I didn't sing. I swore I'd never let that happen again.