Note to those who have a seemingly pathological hatred of guests, get real, and in the meantime, don't bother reading any further. It won't interest you.

For the rest of you, here's the situation. I'm living with a woman who I love dearly, but day to day stuff isn't going well. We argue quite a bit, and at times I feel like just walking away.

In someways that would be easy, but it's not what I want. I think that we both want it to be 'how it used to be' but we seem to spend all our time argueing about why it isn't.

Both of us have our faults (obviously) but right now the problem (to me) is that she won't see that even 1% of the fault is hers. I spent my entire life 'doing wrong' and 'saying sorry'

But I still don't want to lose her.

Thanks for reading