Guest, I don't think you get the idea of the thread. Just because Kat asks for a positive thought sent out doesn't mean she, you, I or anyone is doing anything wrong, by asking. And does not imply at all that you are wrong for you actions. This thread (and I may be speaking for Kat) was not meant for hostility. If you can understand that it will be a better thing.
Now DAMN-IT, Peace, Rustic