Tracy Chapman? Castleberry & Dupree? There is always Laura Nyro's "Emily." Margie Adam wrote some, I think. (hard G) Maggie Savage is gay, isn't she? openly? Great band in Seattle called Righteous Mothers. I have an old old LP by a women's band out of Boston with a great song called "Unfinished Business."and Shambles, kids where I live now get thrown out of their homes for being effeminate.
MA -- heterosexual. I can't help it; just born that way. (sigh.)